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Does Time Heal The Wound Of Child Loss?

One of the questions a newly grieving parent may ask is when does it get better? There is no answer to that question because grief is different for everyone. I don't have to tell you that as a loving parent, you are always going to carry a measure of grief for your child. It will be woven into your life and you will learn to carry it. There are many factors that may influence the intensity and duration of heavy grief. Every relationship between a parent and child is different

Mar 82 min read

Secondary Losses

Losing a child isn't a singular event. The loss is a profound trigger for a life-long ripple effect. Everything changes when we lose a child. Weeks, months and years later, secondary losses are still accumulating and felt. Secondary losses can be from: - The loss of friendships and relationships. Sometimes we can be too much for others to deal with, our grief is a reality no one wants to confront. On the other hand sometimes we make the decision to sever ties when we opt for

Feb 22 min read

Coping With Guilt Following The Death Of A Child

Outliving children can cause many parents to suffer from survivor's guilt. This can stem from helplessness in the situation that took their child - whether it was an accident, illness or suicide. When a parent has nurtured and protected their child, even to adulthood, to have no control over a situation can be traumatic and leave them taking on board a measure of blame, wondering what they could have done to avoid the devastating outcome. Sometimes we punish ourselves further

Jan 191 min read

The Dreaded Death Date Anniversary

The anniversary of the death date of our children can be very difficult to handle. Some choose to mark the day with a ritual of some sort whether it be lighting a candle or a family gathering. Some parents choose to spend the day alone, visiting their child's resting place or just in private reflection. There is no right or wrong way to mark these dates. I just clocked over another year of missing my son. It's 8 years now since I heard his voice, saw his smile and his beautif

Jan 92 min read